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I was writing my ‘why’.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It was a painful life personally and professionally.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And after 12 long years of suffering, I found the solution to be happy and earning and experiencing growth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My husband was hugely talented, but hardly recognized, mostly because of attitudinal issues, and hence suffered from inferiority complex. I wished the world saw what I saw in him. But it was not to be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I told him to earn doing whatever he loved doing. Join a dance school to teach, he was a grand dancer, or play instrument, or any other activity he liked doing. He even taught sociology, but somehow he never could get extension despite students adoring him so much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I made no demand, except to urge him to start small. That he could not do,..and that surprised me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
He thought, he will lose me like he lost many things in life. So he started restricting my movement, even he objected me to go for my training for regular up-gradation that is required in professional life. . Me to upgrade perhaps meant that he would lose me quickly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And at office I wanted promotion,; how would I have received a promotion without upgrading myself? And since the husband was not earning, I was to earn the bread, falling short of butter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
He needed pocket money for his movement and his booze. And I had difficulty in managing as children were growing up and we needed money for their education. I had to take support from my father repeatedly, and one day my 16 year old daughter asked, ” cant you people earn for yourself whatever is required?”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I do not know what he thought about this, but I knew I had to distance from this environment to be able to save. So I put my children into my patents’ care and took a job at Hyderabad and that was the turn around in my life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I was away from my children for 10 years. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
During that time, I could execute phenomenal projects and achieve unbelievable results. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I saved money, I raised my children.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My husband, expired 5 years back, left to himself. He lost me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I think in hindsight that, if it were a happy household, I still would have stayed where I was. I would have brought my children to the level of our budget, would have compromised my dreams of their higher education.. ..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But you know, it was not to be. I was meant for greater purpose, it was a clear indication. And I am meant for love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
So now I want to give what has been my experience and professional success that has led me to my purpose and happiness. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
I tell you one thing : Pay attention to your calling.. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
If you won’t, the universe will give you a painful story so that you will be compelled to budge.. because the Universe will not allow you to die ordinary<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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